Two Tips to Make Women Want You
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Hey dude, do you want to learn how to make women want you? What guy wouldn’t?
Unfortunately though, most guys don’t really give women anything to want. Let me explain this a little bit.
If you want to make women want you, you simply can’t just be like all the other guys out there that just bend over backwards to make themselves available to every woman.
I don’t know if you have a younger brother or sister, but this is sort of the equivalent of guys coming off as that bratty sibling that always wants to tag along with you and do everything with you and your friends.
Not attractive at all. In fact, it’s actually pretty annoying.
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Women don’t want men that are too available. Women want men that they have to work a bit to reach. Ever wonder why they always go head over heels for successful business men or famous celebrities and not the average guy down the street?
When was the last time you told a woman “No?” If you can’t remember, then you’re probably way too available.
Tone down your need to please women and play a little hard to get. That’s right. Playing hard to get isn’t just for women anymore. Men can do it too, and it drives women crazy. In fact it’s key to make women want you.
When your best girl “friend” asks you to go get coffee or lunch, instead of jumping up eager to see her, just tell her something like “I don’t know, I’ll have to get back to you.” This may seem insignificant, but it is a start. This will get the ball rolling and help you learn how to be a little less available for her.
Another great way to make women want you is to practice the art of what is called “push pull.” This is simply a way of flirting that will send the woman on an emotional roller-coaster ride that will keep her guessing and make her think that you’re funny, unpredictable guy (two features women like).
To do this, you first say something that will push the woman away, like you’re insulting her or rejecting her. Then at the last second you pull her back in by turning it into a compliment.
For example, let’s say that you’re talking to some girl about how she learned how to tango in Argentina.
You can say something like, “Just stop talking about tango.” (this is the push) Then you pause for a second while that sinks in. “You’re turning me on way too much, and I don’t think I can handle it” (this is the pull).
Get the idea? This really isn’t that hard, but women just eat this stuff up.
Of course, if you’re like me, then this will take some practice before you really master things like “push pull.” It’s just like building muscle at the gym. You need to start small and eventually you’ll get stronger. Just take small steps and work on building your “social muscles.” This will get easier with time.
These are two simple ways you can make women want you more. Try them out and practice them next time you’re out at a club or even just making small talk in your day-to-day life. You might be surprised by the results.
