The 3 Biggest Turn Offs for Women
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A lot of guys make some serious blunders when it comes to attracting women.
Here are some of the biggest turn offs for women that I see guys unfortunately make more often than I’d care to admit. I hope you’re not making any of these:
First, guys don’t take control of the relationship – Men are naturally leaders and women naturally follow the man’s lead. I’m not trying to be sexist here.
I know we live in the 21st century and all, but this is just a simple fact. Women want men that can man-up, set the tone, and take the lead with things.
I see tons of guys that are always doing the “I don’t know. What do you want to do” thing. This is one of the biggest turn offs for women. When she asks you something like “what do you want to do tonight?” she’s looking for you to take the lead and decide something.
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Even if you don’t particularly care, just decide something… anything! Get in the habit of making decisions for other people and women will start to look up to you and think of you as a “real man.”
Second, guys are way too afraid to escalate things – I’m not going to lie to you, asking her out, going in for that first kiss, undressing her back at your place… these can be nerve-wracking sometimes. You’re wondering, “what if she rejects me?” But if you just sit there, she’s going to get bored of you. Not being a man and taking things to the next level another one of the biggest turn offs for women.
I know it can be scary to put yourself out there and risk rejection, but that’s just part of life. Remember that part about women following your lead? Well, she’s not going to take the lead and ask you out or kiss you or whatever unless you’re REALLY attractive (like a movie star) because she doesn’t want to risk looking like a slut. There’s not shortcut here, bro, you’re just going to have to push through the fear.
If she rejects you, just say something light-hearted and brush it off like “Well, you can’t blame a guy for trying.”
Third, guys will compromise their values to win the approval of women – LIke it or not women will test you. They want to know that you’re a guy that sticks to his guns and won’t let a woman change his mind about important things.
Do you want to hang out with your friends tonight, but she’s trying to get you to go out with her? Stick to your desires or else you’ll look like an indecisive loser that will surrender control of his life to her. Definitely one of the most common turn offs for women.
This all goes back to that part about men leading and women following. Be the man and set the tone. Don’t let her drive the relationship or make decisions for you. If you do, you’ll have failed her test.
These are 3 of the biggest turn offs for women that I see guys making every day. I know it might be difficult to break old patterns if you’re naturally a passive, go-with-the-flow kind of guy, but with some work, you’ll learn to man up take the bull by the horns. Women will respect you more for this and you’ll find that they just find you much more of a naturally attractive man overall.
